When a man thinks of hot women, he thinks of the women that are extroverts and super social. These chicks sometimes intimidate men because they don't know how to react to these women. His lack of confidence will shine through because she is so confident herself. Did you realize that there are tons of hot women that are notoriously shy? When a chick is shy, it kinda takes the edge off and makes him feel more comfortable. When a man displays confidence, it makes him even more attractive. If you want to get hot women this is a good place to start. Once you gain more confidence, the super social chicks may no longer intimidate you. Here's how to get some of these so-called shy chicks...
1. Walk up to a cute chick and just have a general conversation. Don't expect any fireworks or magic. Just talk. Talk about anything but don't bore her. Keep it brief a little entertaining and when you see her again you she will smile and want you to approach her.
2. While you are talking to her...listen. I know I sound like the movie "Hitch" but if you listen to what a person (any person) says it shows them that you like and respect them. Respect is the first thing that must be achieved in any relationship. Anyway, if you happen to remember what the person says many days later it will be somewhat flattering, but don't do it to flatter them. Just do it because it's part of what conversation is about.
3. Do this as many times as possible with as many cute chicks you can find. When women see you with cute chicks their attraction meter goes off and then it attracts them to you. If the chick is not attractive it may make her think that you are out of her league. This could also be a good benefit if you don't like the chick.
4. When you are comfortable with having a general conversation with these chicks get into deeper conversations, ask them for their number, start asking them if they want to hang out, etc. You may be nervous but don't let this stop you. Remember that it is not about this one chick it is about becoming a person that gets cute chicks.
Once you are hanging out and talking to nothing but cute chicks, chicks will be more attracted to you and probably approach you. You have to keep in mind that you have to be the leader in the whole encounter. Women need to be lead and that is why it is easy to get the cute shy ones because they are easier to lead. Once they see that you are comfortable to be around then they will open up to you. If any of them are flaky just weed them out and keep the ones that are not.
P.S. Don't be her "gal pal" either. I don't care if she is the hottest thing on earth if she treats you like her gal pal by asking you to do things that she would normally do with her female friends, decline to her invite immediately. If you want to be seen as a MAN that gets cute chicks you cannot indulge in "female friend" activities.
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