Attracting women with gifts, money, and compliments

A real guy defending the act of buying a women's attraction

"Yea I buy these women dinner, and I still get laid. NoSimpin about it. If I
decide to take a women to dinner (or drinks, which is much more common) i'm paying. case closed. why would i invite you somewhere and then have you pay!? Good dinner is like 40 bucks. Ill be damned if i spend another 40 on the broad. 40 bucks for sex. not worth it. 20 bucks.....definitely..."

Rather than become charismatic, confident and captivating, these pseudo "nice guys" are so socially handicapped or believe they are not good enough to attractive a women that  they will use any spineless method to build attraction. These methods, collectively called simpin, include buying gifts, heavy complimenting, and even begging. However, like the emails from Nigeria's Royal Bank concerning my 800 million dollars inheritance, women can smell your dishonest bullshit from miles away.

Please understand, there is nothing wrong with buying a women a drink, dinner, or a gift under the right conditions. But it is foolish to think you will impress any decent women with your fake ballin'. Actually, rather than impress, you instead shows woman that you are deprived and approval seeking.

 Tips: If you're going to spend money a women there are three rules you should consider:

1. Do it without expecting anything in return.

This rule spoken by many prominent figures still holds true in dating. Honesty and true "nice guys" are what is lacking in todays society. Many women have lost faith to the point that any act of kindness to a women can set off a red flag in her head. But its not the womens fault, its the guys that are using acts of kindness with decietful intentions.

2.DON'T, try to live above your means.

Fake ballin has the opposite effect on the most women. Albeit, some women may be moved by your flaunting of wealth, are these the type of women you really want? Be yourself. If your strapped for cash, then look for low cost ways to have fun with a girl.

3. She must have done something deserving of your kindness.

It shouldn't look like paying for dates and gifts is something you bestow on every women you meet. If you like her attitude, she is fun to be around, and you already HAVE her number and attraction, you can buy her a drink. Gifts, and expensive dates should be saved for your mother, wife, and long time girlfriend ONLY!

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